Husbands and Housework are the Key to a Happy Home

14 May 2010

New research from the London School of Economics shows that married couples are twice as likely to divorce when the husband doesn’t contribute to chores.


The research looked at the details of 3,540 married British couples who had their first child in 1970. The families were then re-interviewed when their child passed their 5th, 10th and 16th birthdays. One in five of the couples had divorced by the time their eldest child had left school, and further analysis showed that housework could be a key cause.


The probability of divorce was 3.3% in families where the husband worked and the wife stayed at home to look after the children and do all of the housework. This increased to 6.5% when the woman also had a paid job...but if the father carried out his fair share of chores, that figure dropped to 4.5%. The risk of divorce was apparently doubled when the wife works but the husband only made a “minimal contribution” to childcare and housework.


Wendy Sigle-Rushton from the London School of Economics says, “The results suggest that the risk of divorce among working mothers, while greater, is substantially reduced when fathers contribute more to housework and childcare.” However, as the data is now several decades old, circumstances may have changed.


How much do you believe the results of the study? Do you know any couples who have divorced for these reasons? Or are the figures above simply a coincidence? Answers in the box below...



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Hazel T My fiance is great at housework, far better than me - although he leaves the bathroom to me. He also does the bulk of the shopping (as he goes in with the list and comes back out with the items on the list - whereas I come out with a trolley full!). I work two jobs at the moment as times are tough. I think all partnerships have to have give and take or they will fail. If one person is left being "slave" to the other it'll never work. Please log in (or register) to reply to a comment

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Tracy T Me and mine have been together for nearly 20 years and married for just 2 of those 20. Neither of us like housework much and I'm a believer in keeping on top of it all to make sure there's never much to do. He does quite a bit without even asking whether I'd like his help, he'll clean the shower, empty the dish-washer, he'll even cook a meal every now and then. We both work full time. I'm not really sure that housework sharing has really been a deciding factor in keeping us together though, I prefer to think it's just love (with the odd smidgen of lust thrown in for good measure!) Please log in (or register) to reply to a comment

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Sarah M Surely most 'couples' work out some system of sharing their lives whether it is an even distribution or not. Whilst I worked when we were first married as did my husband things just got done and neither of us was particularly bothered by whom. When children began to invade us I stayed at home and in general the day to day chores were done by me. I don't think the importance of my husband working long hours to support us and provide the lifestyle that we had chosen i.e.my being a housewife, should be underestimated. We both had our niches. It probably helped that whilst I am only 5ft 2in and he is 6ft 4ins when decorating for instance ceilings ere his domain and skirting boards mine! Neither of us are particularly fond of DIY so he worked hard to pay for us to employ builders and the like. I now am working but of the two of us my hours are far less and he works abroad a number of weeks at a time fair ditribution is not possible but then neither of us are bothered by trivial matters (although I do dust and hoover occaionally) but are much more interested in making time for each other when we can, and our children and grandchild too. An orderly home is one thing but to have it be an issue within a marriage seems to make it far more important than is wise. Although I realise that inequality causes resentment I cannot believe that this can be the only reason that a marriage might fail surely there must be other underlying issues that come to bear. Please log in (or register) to reply to a comment

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Helen M I am indifferent about this article. My husband always offers to help with the upkeep of the house, but I always like to clean it myself so I know it is clean. I know it is a bit vain but if my husband does dust - I always do it again! ha ha! He does do the hoovering which is fine as I have a bad back. He does all the gardening ( I help a bit) and he is in charge of keeping the car clean! Share and share alike is what I say! Please log in (or register) to reply to a comment

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Vikki H I'm not married but can imagine whats its like especially if the man is not doing his fair share I would get annoyed to, I get annoyed just being in a simple relationship so I can only think that these things would contribute towards the divorce. Please log in (or register) to reply to a comment

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Peter G my wife does all inside chores,I do all outside etc however if asked she might do a bit of weeding and I do not mind the occasional hoovering/dusting etc, when you are a couple you SHARE it might not be 50/50.We both work so what if its 60/40 ...its love that makes the world around NOT statistics Please log in (or register) to reply to a comment

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Asya Z i know a few couples who argue about the same reasons stated above, about house work, the cooking looking after the children. I have noticed that in a marriage if the women is happy to do all housework and having a job is not an option, the there are less arguments however if the women had a job and had to leave it because of starting a marriage after a few years the women will become resentful towards the husband. Then it the same when both partners work and they have kids it becomes more stressful to do everything cooking cleaning and looking after the kids, plus its easier for the women to leave because she has her own income. i think when a husband contributes towards the housework it makes a women think i have got an all in one husband i know i would think that, and my love for him would grow. Please log in (or register) to reply to a comment

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Margaret M A marriage is a team. If the wife doesn't work and is looking after young children she is more trapped. If both partners work then of course all housework and child care should be shared - otherwise resentment builds up. If the wife has her own income she is more free to leave. Please log in (or register) to reply to a comment

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